“Help! My Baby Prefers the Bottle Over the Breast”

 

Bonjour Mamas!

Forgive me for the long break. but we recently moved and now, I'm unpacked and back! My lactation studies and the experience I am gaining at weekly breastfeeding support groups has taught me so much. One interesting lesson (or trend) is when Moms have challenges getting baby back on the breast after others tried to be helpful by bottle feeding. 

Sometimes, even when you’re doing your best to breastfeed, your little one starts showing a strong preference for the bottle. Maybe they get frustrated at the breast, fuss, or refuse to latch altogether. Mama, if you’re experiencing this, you are not alone — and it’s not your fault. 💛

Why Does Bottle Preference Happen?
Bottles can deliver milk faster and more easily than the breast. Babies are smart! They might realize that the bottle gives them an easier flow without as much effort. This doesn’t mean they’re rejecting you — it just means they’re adapting to the easier method.

What Can You Do?
✨ Pace bottle feeding. Slow down bottle feeds by holding the bottle more horizontally and offering frequent pauses. This mimics the slower flow at the breast.
✨ Try skin-to-skin. Spend time cuddling with your baby shirtless, even outside of feeding times, to rebuild that breast connection.
✨ Offer the breast when baby is calm. Right after a nap or when they’re sleepy can be a great time.

Remember, transitioning back to breastfeeding may take time and patience. You’re offering love, nourishment, and comfort no matter what. 💕

You’ve got this, Mama. 🫶